How to put family first as a busy entrepreneur
In February of this year we made a big decision to homeschool our daughter for the rest of sixth grade. đ¤ âŁ
My husband and I both run our own businesses, and have one car, so we had to work some things out logistically to make this leap.âŁ
There was a lot of researching, asking homeschooling friends a million questions, and having many family conversations to make sure everyone was all in.âŁ
We have no idea how long this experiment will last. Weâre approaching it moment by moment.âŁ
A few weeks ago, I asked my husband how homeschooling feels for him.âŁ
He said he feels like a big stress on our family has been lifted. He felt before homeschooling, our mornings were so rushed. Now mornings feel more spacious.âŁ
He felt afternoons were filled with âdid you do this, did you do that? Do this! Do that!â Now afternoons are filled with hikes even in the rain (this pic is of them hiking for P.E.). â
Can you really take on more responsibility?
I wondered if he felt like he was missing alone time after work. Heâs done teaching his music classes by 12 pm. So before homeschooling, heâd have an extra 3 hours on his own before our daughter was out of school. He said he really treasures the extra time they have together.âŁ
I thought that homeschooling would feel like an extra responsibility that we wouldnât have time for. But now there are so many more moments I have with my daughter that I didnât have before. I get to deepen my relationship in a season where it would be easy for us to pull further away because work/life/school gets so busy.âŁ
We didnât realize how much we were tolerating when it comes to how we moved through our days. Iâm so happy we took the leap knowing we could always go back to the way things were if we didnât like it.âŁ
Is there an area in your life you may be tolerating? Is there a decision youâve been wanting to make, but havenât made the leap yet?
How to put your family first
As a busy entrepreneur, we have to find ways to put our family first. Thatâs why Iâm excited about todayâs Lead with Love podcast episode.
As entrepreneurs, we can get all consumed with our work.
How do you make sure work doesnât fill up your entire life, so you donât miss out on connecting with the people who matter the most to you?
“A business that compromises your health & relationships is not a sustainable business model”
In this episode, I get cozy with Jim Sheils, the author of the Amazon best-seller, The Family Board Meeting. We talk about a simple solution that will deepen your connection and presence with your family. And even if you donât have children, you can do this with your partner as well.
How to Put Family First as a Busy Entrepreneur
Providing and protecting is important, but sometimes youâve got to just love your family.
– JIM SHEILS
Motivated by what he saw as one of the most tragic challenges of modern lifeâthe disconnection of busy entrepreneurs from their familiesâJim developed the Family Board Meeting process to help business owners bridge the gaps between themselves and their loved ones.
Jim is the founder of 18 Summers, which specializes in live events, workshops and private consulting for organizations looking to strengthen their family lives while still succeeding in business. Heâs an in-demand public speaker, and owns a private real estate company that has done more than $200 million in transactions.
What you'll hear (and don't want to miss!):
- Jimâs process for value-based decision making and what qualities of his support him leading with love
- What is a family board meeting, how they work and where the inspiration to start them came from
- Why his private Facebook group is called â18 Summers,â and a shocking stat around the time we have to spend with our kids
- The amazing story of how âPizza Fridaysâ began and the impact it had on Jim and his son
- What is needed for the family board meetings to work and what reading Jimâs book will give you
- The 3 major life areas, or core pillars, that he realized school wasnât addressing and how to start imparting this wisdom to your children
FIND full show notes here: jadahsellner.com/157
Check out the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music (or wherever you listen to podcasts). As youâre listening, take a screenshot, share your favorite takeaway and tag me on Instagram and Facebook with #leadwithlovepodcast.
Warm hugs,